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Thinking about self-awareness - the value of feedback

Today's walk was a good time to reflect on a number of 360 degree reports I facilitated with clients this week. While discussing colleague feedback it was evident with each person the increased awareness they gained from considering their reports.  In every case each client was able to come away with actions and increased appreciation of their behaviours and the how these impact on those around them.

Self-awareness is a crucial trait for effective leadership. A leader who is self-aware understands their strengths, weaknesses, and areas for growth. This knowledge allows them to make decisions that align with their values and goals, while also being mindful of how their actions impact others.

Leaders who lack self-awareness can inadvertently create a toxic work environment. They may fail to recognise how their behaviour affects those around them, leading to low morale and high turnover rates. In contrast, a self-aware leader is more likely to create a positive and supportive workplace culture.

Self-awareness also allows leaders to recognise when they need to seek feedback or help from others. This humility can be a powerful tool for growth and development, and it demonstrates to others that the leader values their input and perspectives.

In short, self-awareness is essential for effective leadership. It allows leaders to make informed decisions, create a positive work environment, and seek feedback and growth opportunities. By cultivating self-awareness, leaders can become more effective and empathetic, and ultimately drive their organisations to success.

Self-awareness is not only important for effective leadership, but it is also a valuable trait for personal growth and development. Being self-aware means having a deep understanding of your own emotions, thoughts, and behaviors, and being able to reflect on them critically. This level of self-reflection enables individuals to identify areas for improvement and make meaningful changes in their lives.

In addition to benefiting personal growth, self-awareness can also have a positive impact on interpersonal relationships. When individuals are self-aware, they are better able to empathise with others and understand their perspectives. This can lead to more effective communication and collaboration, both in personal and professional settings.

Moreover, self-awareness can help individuals manage stress and avoid burnout. By understanding their own limitations and needs, individuals can set realistic goals, prioritise self-care, and seek support when necessary.

Therefore, cultivating self-awareness is a valuable investment for both personal and professional development. It can lead to a more fulfilling and successful life, and positively impact those around us.

While not everyone needs or will have the opportunity to undertake a formal 360 degree review each of us can take time to reflect on our behaviours and actions. 

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